When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
Her cat’s presence brings comfort to grandmother dying in hospital
I finally know why I feel like a fraud when people say I’m smart
Don’t trust this con man — or almost anybody else on ‘TV news’
I just found out an ex got married – and I’m shocked to feel jealous
If abortion is just simple choice, why is killing babies for gender bad?
All I wanted was to be your hero, but I still haven’t found my way
The Fourth Amendment? Hmmmm. No, we’ve never heard of that one