When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
In defense of the legal right to anonymous speech, political lies
Home is just a dream that some among us are still searching for
‘Post-racial’ America? We’re nowhere close to that — and may never be
Are you ready for chaos when fed shutdown turns your gravity off?
What are the odds that gambling improves your economic future?
Stunningly arrogant Vatican paper demands world economic dictator
Whether it makes sense or not, I’ve learned to expect miracles
Be afraid, friends: Chicken Little says the sky is falling somewhere