When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Sometimes we need to be quitters; what is it you need to quit today?
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Our inexplicable behavior ‘signals’ to the world who and what we are
Left’s refusal to criticize Obama because he’s black is simply racist
Dems, GOP name Charlotte Clinton and future Bush baby for 2056
Pursuit of dream pushes singer closer to stardom since we met
Loss of respect for truth leads to remorseless liar’s excuses
Without growth on similar paths, two people drift apart, love dies