Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
You always need enough money that you can quit when it’s time
Lens of narcissism is only way to understand Donald Trump’s crime
Was I ‘fat’? ‘Lazy’? My father’s ugly words made me feel shame
A president can be dictator if he claims it’s for national security
For me, money always comes best when I’m pursuing higher purpose
Political satire works best when exaggerated truth is at its core
We like to think we’re complex, but personality gurus pegged me
I don’t know how to amuse you into taking your future seriously
Looking at the stars makes me feel connected, not insignificant