Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
Confirmation bias means most of us assume our opponents are ‘morans’
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What if we’re more talented than our inner fears allow us to admit?
He couldn’t mold her into himself, but my dad broke Mother’s spirit
Trust and spontaneous order don’t require heavy hand of the state
Outer storms will end, but storms in my heart do lasting damage
Shallow thinking and arrogance led to ruin of once-great society
In a sane world, everyone would think and act exactly the way I do
Lonely older man finds new life through meeting and loving dogs