Hatred for the traditional family has been the subtext of progressive left ideology for decades. Although there has been a serious overreaction from social conservatives — many of whom believe a family can only look like what they have — there’s been serious disdain from social left theorists and from left-wing political regimes. Remember that The Communist Manifesto called for the “abolition of the family.” Now there’s a wing of feminism which is openly advocating the abolition of blood-related families. Feminist theorist Sophie Lewis is getting respectful hearings in the left-wing media for her new book called “Full Surrogacy Now: Feminism Against Family.” She’s not alone. Less than two years ago, a social psychology professor from City University of New York made waves when she said that white people who are creating white children are somehow supporting “white supremacy.” She wrote, “Part of what I’ve learned is that the white-nuclear family is one of the most powerful forces supporting white supremacy.” Ideas matter. These people are a tiny minority today, but much of the insane things you see being forced on society today started as tiny pockets of lunacy in academia. We can’t let these crazies win. We need healthy families more than ever.
Why do we often attract the folks who are most destructive for us?
I’m surrounded by idiots. And narcissists. And rude people.
At least that’s the way it feels. When I get frustrated with life — as happens more often than I like to admit — I feel my internal pressure rising and I want to get as far away from humans as I can. I want to be a hermit.
But when I think about it with less fear and anger, I’m confused by the situations in which I find myself. I know the world is full of amazing people — those whose thinking and interests and curiosity are more like my own — but I rarely get to spend time with those people.
Why?
And why is it that I somehow end up spending so much time with people who help me recreate horrible old emotional dynamics from my past? Even people with perfectly good intentions can make me feel as though I’m struggling against my father’s oppressive control.
Why do I attract such people into my life — and somehow push away those with whom I would be happier?
Briefly: Film festival announcement for 2019 makes me nostalgic for 2005
Birmingham’s Sidewalk Film Festival announced the lineup for its 21st year today, and seeing that story reminded me powerfully of 14 years ago when my short film — “We’re the Government — and You’re Not” — was selected for the festival. Sidewalk was the first festival to which I submitted and it was a really big deal to me to have the film accepted here, partly because I knew it would get a big audience and partly because all the local people who worked on it could see it with an audience. The film ended up making it into 20 festivals over the following 18 months or so and it even won a few awards. But nothing was more exciting than that first acceptance and then being able to see it with a huge audience for its first screening. (Even better, they roared with laughter at the right parts.) I really need to make another film. My first film seems amateurish to me now — and I’m confident enough (or arrogant enough) to think I could do something great this time.

Briefly: It’s National Dog Day, so celebrate your favorite canine now
Briefly: Trump’s indifference isn’t hate; it’s even worse than that
Briefly: I fear shallow ideas will soon destroy Western Civilization
We’re neither friends nor enemies, just strangers who share the past
‘This path leads to somewhere I think I can finally say, I’m home’
When love finally dies, it’s like a fever breaks and the pain is gone
Briefly: Links to Jordan Peterson discussion on artists and process
Briefly: Want a free watch? Just become a low-rent ‘influencer’
Briefly: Women overestimate men’s attraction to skinny bodies