Bernie Sanders’ papers from the period when he was mayor of Burlington, Vt., are public now and the left-wing magazine Mother Jones has had someone go through those papers and extract some fascinating personal insights about Sanders. It’s very rare to get such a window into the personal lives of public figures while they’re still alive. The article paints a picture of a man full of personal angst and self-doubt, and it shows his personal life to have been a mess. It always shocks me that a person can know his personal life is a disaster but still believe he should dictate how others must live their lives. (And this applies to every politician in the coercive political system, not just Sanders.) I have little interest in the politics of this article, but the psychological insights are amazing.
Briefly: We still hold the power, not Zuckerberg and Co.
I know this isn’t a popular opinion, but Mark Zuckerberg isn’t nearly as powerful as most people seem to fear. I don’t think especially highly of him. I think he misunderstands humans and I think his business ethics are terrible. But he doesn’t actually have power over anybody other than his own employees. He has an indirect business relationship with many millions of people, but those people hold power over him. If they chose to walk away from Facebook, his career and wealth would be destroyed. As long as our relationship with a company is voluntary, we are the ones with the power — even if you wish other people would make different choices than they do.
Sometimes we don’t really notice perfect match ’til it’s far too late
I got a love letter of sorts tonight.
It was really just a Facebook message from a married woman who’s a friend, but it’s not what it sounds like. She wasn’t suggesting a secret tryst or anything of that sort. Instead, she was just lamenting that she didn’t pay more attention to me before she got married — to the wrong man.
I met Amanda online at least 15 years ago. We met in person a couple of times, but there was no real spark between us, so we never dated. We eventually became Facebook friends and I’ve watched as she moved through life — with career success and then marriage. She hadn’t reached out to me for many years.
But it turns out that she’s been watching me, even though I didn’t know it. And even though she has no intention of leaving her husband — and he doesn’t know she’s unhappy — she wanted me to know that she wishes she had noticed more about me before it was too late.

Briefly: University study about jobless people fails to understand human nature
Briefly: Blue and green can match, even if a stuffy art teacher didn’t think so
Briefly: So you think you’re pretty smart, huh?
Briefly: Elderly black neighbor: ‘I love you. You’re such a good neighbor!’
Briefly: 11-year-old is learning life at her dad’s pizza shop this year
Briefly: Today, I feel like taking six months off to make a film
We’re neither friends nor enemies, just strangers who share the past
‘This path leads to somewhere I think I can finally say, I’m home’
When love finally dies, it’s like a fever breaks and the pain is gone