We live in a culture that worships ideas, but I’m frequently left stewing in my ideas and getting nothing done. If knowledge is power — and if ideas are supremely important — why do we have so many educated people with brilliant ideas who achieve little or nothing? For me, that’s been a painful question at times.
I grew up with a supreme confidence in ideas — and a supreme confidence in my own ideas. Actual execution was an afterthought for me. When you’re young and nobody expects that much out of you, just a halfway decent execution of your ideas is almost always enough to impress people — and doing that made me happy.
As I got older, though, a funny thing happened. In the adult world, execution matters more than ideas. In so many of the things I did as a child and as a teen-ager, the good idea was enough to carry the day. Teachers and other adults were impressed. “He’s going to do great things one day,” they’d say.
Looking back, I see that the times when I accomplished anything with my ideas, it was always when I had a partner who was working closely with me. The pattern was always the same. The ideas and inspiration were mine. The practical incentive to turn the ideas into reality — to actually finish what I started — was in the more practical partner working with me. At the time, I didn’t know why I needed that. I understand now.
Your words of kindness can show love to strangers struggling in life
Legislator trying to legalize medical pot because of sister’s suffering
Loving father’s pride in daughter easily bridges our language gap
Why do I suffer deep alienation when I fear I’m misunderstood?
In the great new culture war over Thanksgiving shopping, I’m neutral
Sharing mundane details of life is underrated joy of loving someone
Our need for love lets us ignore past pain and feel hope instead
Life-threatening accident for child puts my tiny problems into context
Why waste your one life on political scandal that won’t change anything?