When I saw Ryan Friday evening, I knew he was upset. He was just getting to work, but he looked beaten and angry. He sat down to tell me his story.
Ryan’s a young guy who went to buy a car Friday. He took slightly more than $2,000 to a dealership to buy a car that costs about $10,000. After test driving the car and agreeing to a price, he filled out all the paperwork — only to be told at the end that he didn’t make enough money, even though he works full time and has a good record.
He was hurt and angry. It wasn’t just that he needed a car. He felt that he had done everything he’s been told he’s supposed to do as a young adult in this society, but he’s not finding the opportunities he expected — and he’s hearing “no” often enough that he’s getting frustrated. And his frustration is turning to anger.
I keep forgetting that I can’t save those who don’t want to be saved
From hole I’ve fallen into today, world is a very alienating place
If you must be ‘good enough,’ you’ll never start to be yourself
Is it abuse to force atypical kids to conform to norms of society?
Fear of intimacy causes confused people to run from love they need
Is Paul Krugman serious or is this some kind of weird performance art?
How do we often know things which we shouldn’t really know?
Leopards might not change spots, but cowardly lions can gain courage