Can you distinguish between things you can control and things you can’t control? If so, do you have the ability to focus only on what you can control? Can you treat what you can’t control as simple environmental reality?
I’ve started noticing over the last week or so that there are different sorts of fear. Yes, there are a lot of specific fears, but I’ve suddenly become very aware of one basic differences between the types of fear.
Almost everybody who is aware of what’s going on in the world is afraid right now. We have just entered a dangerous time, so it’s rational to be afraid. But some people seem paralyzed by their fears and other people seem energized by their fears.
And these wildflowers in my back yard taught me the difference Friday afternoon.

Will we build a loving world or will we focus on hate and hell?
Listen to Samuel’s ancient warning to Israel about anointing a ruler: ‘…you shall be his slaves’
Don’t be shocked if insane system produces narcissistic leaders
For most men, ‘I’m a nice guy,’ means, ‘I’ll always be a loser’
I’m writing a book — and I’ll be talking about it as it progresses
What if our best romantic decisions come by listening to ‘selfish genes’?
Donald Trump is no conservative; he’s an immoral, narcissistic liar
Healthy romance features mutual growth, not just ‘take me as I am’
Why do we stay in prison when there’s no lock holding us there?