I was ushered into a conference room at radio station WERC-AM. As I sat at a wooden conference table, Paul Finebaum sat across from me. He was flanked by a couple of guys from the production staff of his popular Birmingham radio talk show.
I was nervous and hoped it wouldn’t show.
It was sometime in the mid 1990s, but I can’t recall the year. The show had run a contest to find guest hosts from the audience to be on the air one week in the summer when Finebaum would be on vacation. It was called the Finebaum Fantasy Fill-in.
I had completed a written application to be considered, but I had no idea whether I had a shot. I was excited to get the call to tell me I was one of the ones being interviewed for a slot. And now here I was facing Finebaum and his producers.
In person, Finebaum wasn’t the caustic personality I had known on the air. He seemed strikingly intelligent and almost quiet. On the air, he was boisterous and loud. In the interview, we somehow hit it off.

If you need vacation from spouse, maybe you married wrong person
If online attack confirms your biases too nicely, it just might be a fake
We can’t really change people, even if they offer us the control
As I quietly watch my world burn, I’m painfully aware this isn’t fine
It’s hard to shut off our internal chatterboxes to listen to silence
Do people change? Or do we just learn how to manage our faults?
The right woman in a man’s life brings out the best he has to give