A friend who lives in another country sent me a note Friday to let me know that he’d listed my name and phone number on his application to the U.S. government for a tourist visa. We joked back and forth for a couple of minutes about him coming to recruit terrorist agents or set off bombs or something, but I suddenly realized something I didn’t like.
Even though these were private messages we were exchanging and we were clearly joking in the context of him having to answer stupid questions on a visa application, I realized that I felt just a touch of nervousness. It wasn’t quite fear, but it was close. I found myself hesitant to make completely innocent jokes — simply because of the insanely paranoid police state that’s sprung up over the last decade in the name of fighting terrorism.
There was a time when I had confidence that the things I said in personal online correspondence were almost certainly private, because I didn’t fear being targeted for any reason. But given the increasingly paranoid attitudes and actions of politicians and bureaucrats, I no longer have that confidence.

Do people change? Or do we just learn how to manage our faults?
Time and attention are flawless guides to what a person values
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Shame of not being perfect comes with every new thing I try to do
A president can be dictator if he claims it’s for national security
Our methods of selling politicians seem designed for mental defectives
Lives change in moments of truth when we stop lying to ourselves
My ego threatens to take over when I whisper, ‘I deserve better’