When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Liberty-minded people need to distance ourselves from crazy folks
Zimmerman verdict is correct, but there’s no cause for celebration
Does your life feel wasted so far? Maybe your best is yet to come
If you don’t feel overwhelmed, you just aren’t paying attention
‘Winner-take-all’ culture fuels hatred in debate about our future
Trip to Memory Lane reminds me some relationships deserve to die
Loss of everything you value can be a new beginning, not the end
Fear of terrifying future makes heart look to the past for clarity