Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
When people identify with their masters, freedom is hard to accept
In the middle of world’s madness, happiness makes me think of her
FRIDAY FUNNIES
A president can be dictator if he claims it’s for national security
Black? White? Brown? Santa Claus is any color you want to make him
Can we find peace online when social media have become toxic?
Petty politics as usual just might be Chris Christie’s bridge to obscurity
‘What are we Christians to do?’ Jesus has already answered that