When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
I’m drawn to tales of brokenness, rescue and ultimate redemption
Defense mechanism led me to repress unacceptable emotions
I wasn’t allowed to express need, so I’ve spent life traveling alone
How could we take responsibility but avoid self-destructive shame?
Love & Hope — Episode 1:
What if biggest risk to our lives comes from our own unhappiness?
I’m horrified that it’s become so difficult for me to finish a book
Just a sandwich: Why do people make everything so political?
The love I crave seems beyond horizon, always out of my reach