When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
FRIDAY FUNNIES
I feel anger toward those who casually resent life I wish I had
Our voluntary decisions can lead to a new beginning for America
We find meaning in responsibility, not in pursuit of empty pleasures
Defense mechanism led me to repress unacceptable emotions
Achievement or scam? Designer invents perfume you can’t smell
What do you do when it feels as though your entire world is over?
A heart that’s open to love can lead you to unexpected places