When I saw Ryan Friday evening, I knew he was upset. He was just getting to work, but he looked beaten and angry. He sat down to tell me his story.
Ryan’s a young guy who went to buy a car Friday. He took slightly more than $2,000 to a dealership to buy a car that costs about $10,000. After test driving the car and agreeing to a price, he filled out all the paperwork — only to be told at the end that he didn’t make enough money, even though he works full time and has a good record.
He was hurt and angry. It wasn’t just that he needed a car. He felt that he had done everything he’s been told he’s supposed to do as a young adult in this society, but he’s not finding the opportunities he expected — and he’s hearing “no” often enough that he’s getting frustrated. And his frustration is turning to anger.
Quit using the word ‘masculinity’
Collective freak-out over tasteless shirt points to double standard
Each unexpected death forces me to confront limits of my own life
The things we regret the most show us what we really value
My pride and insecurity make it difficult for me to live in humility
How would you live differently if you knew when death was coming?
My endorsement goes to the man who can make coercive state work
Intuition sometimes tells you when someone is worth chasing
Evil media bias? It depends on which lens you’re looking through that day