In 1994, John Perry Barlow took his girlfriend to the Los Angeles airport for a flight to New York City. He would be following her later that day and would see her at the apartment they shared. At the curb, Cynthia said, “We were made for each other, Baby. Nothing can keep us apart.”
That was the last thing she ever said to Barlow, because she died during the flight.
The story of John Perry Barlow and Cynthia Horner is a love story that you’re going to want to hear. Even though it doesn’t have a happy ending, that doesn’t make the story any less compelling and thought-provoking. That’s especially true if you’re not sure you believe in “love at first sight” or “soul mates” or that sort of romantic “nonsense.”
I first heard this story years ago on the public radio show, “This American Life,” and I was reminded of it again this week when the episode was repeated. At this link, scroll down to Act Three — “When Worlds Collide”— to hear the story.
Barlow is known to different people for different reasons. I first heard of him because of his association during the ’90s with NeXT, which was the computer company Steve Jobs founded after he left Apple. He’s also the co-founder of the Electronic Frontier Foundation and is well-known as an activist for online civil liberties. Fans of the Grateful Dead will know him best as one of the band’s long-time lyricists.
Money can’t buy happiness, but poverty can make you miserable
A muse is a crutch for an artist, but some need a crutch to walk
Sometimes you’re not ready for a challenge, but you do it anyway
My need to make others perfect reflects my fear I’m not in control
Evil media bias? It depends on which lens you’re looking through that day
What evil lives in the heart of man who can kill his wife, kids?
The best romantic relationships end up becoming mutual rescue
Sharing ridiculous things we enjoy is a special part of love
Best way to fight terror? Turn off your TV and get back to real life