Why do I pay for 1,450 square feet of space to live in? I think about that frequently, and I don’t have a good answer. I live alone, with just the cats and a dog to keep me company. (They mostly hang out close to wherever I am.) I basically need a desk for my computer, a place to sleep and a bathroom. So why do I waste the money on space that could house four or five families in some parts of the world?
I’ve been thinking about this more and more lately. That makes it sound as though it’s just a rational thought, but it’s more than that. I’ve been feeling something I can only call a compulsion in my heart to get rid of almost everything I own and move to a much smaller place.
Do we really own the things we own? Or do they own us? I don’t have a tremendous amount of stuff — certainly not compared to most people I know — but the stuff I do have is making me feel weighed down. I don’t know why. I just know I don’t like it.
We live in a society with certain expectations of what’s acceptable, especially for those of us in the middle class or higher. We’re supposed to have a home that looks a certain way. We’re supposed to fill it with socially acceptable furniture. We’re supposed to care what other people think about what we have. We’re supposed to want the things that other people have. And most people believe they do want those things.

As nightmares plague my friends, I’m grateful mine have subsided
I want to live a life my kids will want to emulate as they grow up
Love & Hope — Episode 2:
I’m still hungry for healthy love that my 5-year-old self craved
State-based ‘aid culture’ makes people believe they’re entitled to other people’s money
Turkey pardon? How about pardons for jailed innocent people instead?
Petty politics as usual just might be Chris Christie’s bridge to obscurity
If Court reverses Roe v. Wade, we’re facing a social tsunami