When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
I wasn’t ready for another dog, but Lucy needed a ‘forever home’
Need for love drives behaviors; for me, old needs make me eat
EU says it might block people from getting their own money from banks
Nobody’s perfect as a mate, but Mary Poppins was pretty close
What demons cause us to abandon one who offers what we need?
It can take a lifetime of work to overcome abusive ‘programming’
They’re just images of past love, but I can’t make them go away
A tax on folks who can’t do math? Winning may be worst possibility
As humans live in slums, why do I complain about my privileged life?