Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
The Alien Observer: I’m not going to change — and you’re not, either
I fear nobody will come with me as I start down a difficult path
No matter who you are or what you’ve done, time is your enemy
THE McELROY ZOO: Meet Sam, the baby kitten I stole
It’s time to kick the arrogance of ‘American exceptionalism’ to curb
In spite of the ridiculous imagery, I still want to rescue my princess
In Northern Ireland, Obama attacks church schools as source of division
As world descends into madness, back away and guard your heart
Advocates of ‘limited government’ are the true utopian dreamers