Ingrained and unquestioned beliefs lead us to do stupid and self-destructive things all the time, but our minds are frequently so strongly on auto-pilot that we don’t even realize the contradictions. That’s what I’m seeing from many people in their reactions to the assassination of Anwar al-Aulaqi.
Are you familiar with the concept of cognitive dissonance? It’s an idea in psychology that says when we’re confronted with two contradictory pieces of information or beliefs, our minds experience some discomfort, so the mind is forced to ignore one or the other of the contradictory pieces — in order to make the psychological pain go away. (That’s an oversimplification, but it’s good enough for our purposes.)
After I wrote Saturday about the case of al-Aulaqi, I experienced some of that cognitive dissonance from one of my Facebook friends. Or, rather, someone who was a Facebook friend until she got so angry about my view that she defriended me, but not before demonstrating the bizarre nature of contradictory thinking about al-Aulaqi and blind support of government on certain subjects. Her initial exposition of her position started with simply, “Whatever….He was a traitor!!”
Lousy personal choices are at root of most of our problems
As I faced my father’s narcissism, I had to confront who I’d become
My ideal woman will never exist, but I keep falling in love with her
Constant quest for perfection leaves us confused and paralyzed
Just $12 fed mom and her girls, but bigger challenges lie ahead
Some Ohio State football fans believe a U.S. president has superpowers
Those Libyan ‘freedom fighters’ we paid for? They’re murdering thugs
Why do American Christians impose political beliefs on God?
I still have trouble accepting that my idealized world doesn’t exist