Can you distinguish between things you can control and things you can’t control? If so, do you have the ability to focus only on what you can control? Can you treat what you can’t control as simple environmental reality?
I’ve started noticing over the last week or so that there are different sorts of fear. Yes, there are a lot of specific fears, but I’ve suddenly become very aware of one basic differences between the types of fear.
Almost everybody who is aware of what’s going on in the world is afraid right now. We have just entered a dangerous time, so it’s rational to be afraid. But some people seem paralyzed by their fears and other people seem energized by their fears.
And these wildflowers in my back yard taught me the difference Friday afternoon.

In the great new culture war over Thanksgiving shopping, I’m neutral
It’s hard to ‘get over it’ if pain of abuse turns to rage against self
I need responsibility for slaying dragons to protect those I love
Are modern Americans tough enough to survive in united nation?
Join me Tuesday for some live radio — if you can stomach an hour of me
If you want permission to skip that Super Bowl party, here it is
How could we take responsibility but avoid self-destructive shame?
Even when folks praise my work, my secret fear is I may be a fraud