When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Double standards seem like the only standards most politicians know
Trivial distractions keep us from focusing on love and connection
Best time to raise dragon-slayers is when dragons are everywhere
Until I can have the family I need, I’ll spend my Thanksgiving alone
What if I’ve fooled myself — and darkness is all that waits for me?
THE McELROY ZOO: Meet Henry, the tiny kitten who was dumped with a broken leg and a big heart
Every addiction is heart’s effort to fill inner hole that requires love
When we sell Jesus like soap, maybe we’re spiritually bankrupt
Fixing what’s broken inside often makes things worse until rebirth