Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
To see how I’ve changed over time, notice which women I’ve fallen for
She took an easy way to escape risk, but she’s left to deal with empty life
Path to loving a woman always starts with intimidation for me
We’re all going to die, but what do you want to do before you die?
Could ‘free cities’ — existing inside more restrictive states — be a first step toward freedom?
We’re slowly losing our religion, but we manage to find new gods
UPDATE: Judge drops charges against Diane Tran; $100,000 raised
How can a child process seeing his mother trying to stab father?