When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
There are three kinds of lonely — and I don’t know which this is
What makes someone want you enough to make you a priority?
Little girl helped me figure out why I’m not attracted to her mom
We often don’t see who loves us until it’s too late to be an option
Two sets of rules: One for the public and a very different set for police
U.S. gives $529 million to build car with worse gas mileage than SUV
What if repairing my worst flaw meant losing my greatest power?
Regardless of political beliefs, why does anyone watch Bill O’Reilly?