I was ushered into a conference room at radio station WERC-AM. As I sat at a wooden conference table, Paul Finebaum sat across from me. He was flanked by a couple of guys from the production staff of his popular Birmingham radio talk show.
I was nervous and hoped it wouldn’t show.
It was sometime in the mid 1990s, but I can’t recall the year. The show had run a contest to find guest hosts from the audience to be on the air one week in the summer when Finebaum would be on vacation. It was called the Finebaum Fantasy Fill-in.
I had completed a written application to be considered, but I had no idea whether I had a shot. I was excited to get the call to tell me I was one of the ones being interviewed for a slot. And now here I was facing Finebaum and his producers.
In person, Finebaum wasn’t the caustic personality I had known on the air. He seemed strikingly intelligent and almost quiet. On the air, he was boisterous and loud. In the interview, we somehow hit it off.

I keep forgetting that I can’t save those who don’t want to be saved
Why let your enemy control you by choosing to listen to his hate?
To unlock your heart for real love, you must embrace vulnerability
All offers eventually expire, so do your best to ‘come before winter’
Modern life doesn’t have to be as complicated as we try to make it
Advocating peace requires more than hating those who start wars
We never get enough of whatever lets us feel safe being ourselves