Why do people remain in situations in which they’re unhappy? Why do people hate their jobs, but remain there? Why do people in miserable marriages remain, frequently producing children to join in the dysfunction? And why do people who see the sickness of a failing political system remain loyal to it rather than look for alternatives?
I suspect it’s largely because people have trouble dealing with uncertainty. They might be miserable with what they have, but they’re unwilling to give it up until they have proof that the alternative is better. They’re scared to step out into the uncertainty of taking a chance and they’re scared to have faith that they can build something better.
It’s uncertainty that makes people terribly uncomfortable with certain situations and even certain art. In the work of M.C. Escher, we see a perfect example. Instead of painting normal and understandable things in the world around us, this brilliant Dutch artist created works that feel uncomfortable to many people, because much of it feels contradictory and uncertain, such as the example above. (Which way is the water flowing, anyway? How can what you’re looking at even exist?)
Fear of potential loss is a terrible reason to stay in the wrong place
Chance encounter with woman leaves me grateful for my health
Redemption of ’Bama’s Jalen Hurts illustrates what sports teach us
Maybe it’s so hard to love others because we don’t love ourselves
I can change my appearance, but my inner self will stay the same
Fetish for privatizing misses point; it’s having a choice that matters
Libertarian freedom vs. conservative tradition leads to culture clash
If there are exceptions to free speech, it’s not really free speech, is it?
Homeless honor student thrown into jail for missing too much school