When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
If you ask wrong questions about politics, you’ll get wrong answers
If you’re waiting to be rescued, what are you still waiting for?
Life is like flying a plane as you assemble it from a box of parts
Some moms can’t handle the job, but they do the best they can
Intense emotions let me feel alive — but hurt comes along with joy
If online attack confirms your biases too nicely, it just might be a fake