What was the key to changing Americans’ attitudes toward race relations in the ’70s? Some would argue that it was political activism or congressional action or even street protests. I’d say that “All in the Family” was more important than any of those.
Do you remember “All in the Family”? If you lived through the ’70s, you probably saw it as a first-run sitcom. If you came along after that, you probably saw some episodes in syndication. After a shaky start — on a network with no real expectations for it — “All in the Family” took off to become the monster sitcom hit of the ’70s, with a long period during which it was No. 1 rated.
The show was about a lovable bigot and his family — his dim-witted wife who sometimes had the biggest heart and best insights, their ultra-liberal daughter and her even more liberal new husband. It might sound like a typical sitcom family, but the subjects were anything but typical. It confronted racial issues and bigotry (among other social issues) in a very up-front way.
The show as a success because it was funny. It was well-written and well-acted. It felt as though its biggest mission was to entertain, not to preach. And that is why it worked better than all the preaching in the world.
If you live by your principles, others won’t control your actions
It’s hard to nurture what’s alive when you water dead flowers
If you want to win a chess match, you have to play chess, not lecture the other players
Our contradictory beliefs lead to irrational views, foolish decisions
Lives change in moments of truth when we stop lying to ourselves
Fixing what’s broken inside often makes things worse until rebirth
Opening a business? It’s easier to do in Rwanda than in U.S. today
I want to help out of pure love, but human motives are messy