When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
It’s when we create art — and create a better world — that we’re most like our Creator
Hurt people attract others who know what it’s like to feel hurt
Becoming who we’re meant to be is the hardest battle of our lives
Don’t believe angry words and deception from a wounded heart
Why is real love so hard to find? Look into a mirror for the culprit
Kind words can make difference for stressed parents at Christmas