Can you distinguish between things you can control and things you can’t control? If so, do you have the ability to focus only on what you can control? Can you treat what you can’t control as simple environmental reality?
I’ve started noticing over the last week or so that there are different sorts of fear. Yes, there are a lot of specific fears, but I’ve suddenly become very aware of one basic differences between the types of fear.
Almost everybody who is aware of what’s going on in the world is afraid right now. We have just entered a dangerous time, so it’s rational to be afraid. But some people seem paralyzed by their fears and other people seem energized by their fears.
And these wildflowers in my back yard taught me the difference Friday afternoon.

Childhood programming makes it hard to believe I’m ‘good enough’
Taking responsibility for mistakes is foreign concept in many lawsuits
Group conflict isn’t as simple as tales of good guys vs. bad guys
We often live in the tension between known and unknown
Most narcissists instinctively steal approval that you deserve
With changed priorities, it’s time to re-evaluate my long-term goal
Some of us feel rage at authority, even as disobedience can hurt us