There was nothing particularly wrong with the place.
The lights were bright. The music consisted of old hits from the time when Jimmy Carter and Ronald Reagan were president. The decor was brightly colored plastic. There were people everywhere, including a table of teen girls making TikTok videos.
There was nothing offensive about any of it, but it was bland and boring and distracting. You could have been anywhere in the country. I tried to write. I tried to read.
And yet, after a while, I felt a quiet urge to leave.
I stepped outside into the warm evening breeze and stood still. As the door slowly closed behind me, the drop in noise was almost physical. The air felt different. The world slowed down just enough for me to notice it again.
And in that moment, I realized — once again — something I’ve observed more and more over the last decade or so. There’s nothing wrong with most of what our culture produces. Not really.
It’s not evil. It’s not low-quality. In many cases, it’s the opposite. It’s engaging and creative and well-made. It’s designed by people who know exactly how to capture your attention and hold it.
That’s not the problem. The problem is that there’s too much of it.

My father’s narcissistic control left me resentful of all authority
Slow culture changes might mean skin color matters less in future
Hugs from a sweet little girl can erase stress after long work day
Relationships he couldn’t mend were tragedy of my father’s death
Emotional toll from surgery harder than physical recovery
I’m paralyzed by fear my choices won’t match needs of future wife
Mass. principal cancels honors night so losers won’t have hurt feelings
What do you do when it feels as though your entire world is over?
Radical truths first seem untenable — until they finally seem obvious