When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
What do you love enough to want once more before life slips away?
Shock of seeing ‘Airplane!’ was realizing that I wasn’t all alone
I just found out an ex got married – and I’m shocked to feel jealous
I wasn’t ready for another dog, but Lucy needed a ‘forever home’
Telling others how to escape is easier than setting myself free
House design reflects our vision and helps shape who we become
God may be working on what we need long before we can see it
Still relevant six years later: ‘We’re the Government — and You’re Not’