Personal growth is a path to alienation from the world.
When I was younger, I assumed that things such as spiritual growth and personal development would allow me to fit in with those around me better. I thought that as I learned to love others and learned to experience God more fully, it would be easier to live in human society.
I’ve realized lately that the truth is just the opposite. It’s easy to fit into the culture around us without emotional or spiritual growth. All it requires is molding ourselves into whatever those around us want.
But finding transcendental meaning and discovering your true self require you to give up what your culture and your friends and your family want you to be — because human culture is ultimately in conflict with what God created us to be.
I’ve realized lately that Jesus told us this 2,000 years ago, but we’ve simply missed the point. Finding the truth — and finding our true self — requires us to be something entirely different from what our culture demands.

I can’t find the balance between expecting too much and too little
FRIDAY FUNNIES
We often don’t see who loves us until it’s too late to be an option
Briefly: Today, I feel like taking six months off to make a film
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Briefly: Taking a big risk to find joy in his career led to more money, not less
Briefly: Dumbed-down public discourse means reason is dead