There’s tremendous pressure in society to conform to what everyone else wants and expects. That might seem like a good thing or a bad thing, depending on your temperament and values. Are you a “conformity enforcer” or a “diversity generator”?
If you drove down my street, you’d have a pretty good indication that the people in one particular house aren’t conformers. While pretty much every other home on the street has closely cropped shrubs like something out of a landscaping magazine, this house has bushes that have been allowed to grow up almost to the roof of the second floor.
The yard is carefully kept and there’s a lot of other greenery in a side garden, so it’s obvious that this is intentional, not just a matter of being too lazy to cut shrubs. Is this a good thing or an eyesore?
It depends on your point of view. Personally, I don’t think I’d want my bushes that high, at least not with such a traditional style of architecture, but it doesn’t bother me in the least. I’ve talked to a couple of people on the street, though, who find it nothing short of scandalous.
I wasn’t allowed to express need, so I’ve spent life traveling alone
Can I reconnect with inner child who saw the world differently?
VIDEO: Today marks three years with the ruler of my household
Social creatures: We heal each other, but start dying when alone
Healthy romance features mutual growth, not just ‘take me as I am’
Let others be wrong if they want; it’s not your job to fix their errors
Shame of not being perfect comes with every new thing I try to do
Love & Hope — Episode 2: