When I was in college, I had a good friend who was struggling with his sexuality. He and I had gone to church together for years, and he eventually started having more conversations with me about the morality of homosexuality. He never said he was struggling with his own identity, but it was obvious.
After college, he joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a shock to all of us who had known him as an artistic and laid back guy. He was in the Army for a couple of enlistments and did quite well.
He also “came out” as gay while he was in the Army. A number of the other soldiers knew it and some proportion of them were gay, too. Everybody knew it, apparently. Regardless how you feel about whether sexual orientation is a matter of choice or not, I can’t figure out why it has anything to do with whether someone is capable of taking a job that requires him to kill people or fulfill other specific jobs to support people who kill people. It’s just not relevant to the job.
Can you spot the change in this video? Most can’t — and most don’t notice the world changing, either
No one will really notice except me, but a good friend of mine is dying
Past behavior is best indicator of how he’ll treat you in the future
Friday’s article will be delayed
You’re wrong! If you don’t agree, you’re just an evil, lying moron
Shame of not being perfect comes with every new thing I try to do
A month after my father’s death, it doesn’t feel real that he’s gone
If you were once a nerdy outsider, you need to go see ‘Ender’s Game’
It’s a very old cliche, but it’s true: Denial isn’t just a river in Egypt