When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Why am I shocked that a friend’s happy news makes me feel envy?
Life is full of choices, but some require us to ‘come before winter’
If abortion is just simple choice, why is killing babies for gender bad?
I felt shame for my lack of love, but God said, ‘You can do better’
Creating work that I’m proud of gives me elusive feelings of joy
Odd interest in UK’s royal family suggests remnant of need for ruler
Would you be glad or ashamed if others could read your thoughts?