When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
Before you can rescue other folks, you have to learn to save yourself
The best romantic relationships end up becoming mutual rescue
Why can it feel strange to lose homes we haven’t seen for years?
Psychiatrist’s insight might be link between spiritual, material worlds
We never get enough of whatever lets us feel safe being ourselves
Surreal dream wakes, shakes me; which is reality, which is dream?
Friday’s article will be delayed
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Good relationships need intimacy, but do they have to include sex?