When someone we care about hurts, it’s natural to feel the pain ourselves. That empathy is one of the most important parts of being a loving person. In our action-oriented Western culture, it’s hard to remember that understanding is frequently more important than solving someone’s problem.
This issue has been on my mind this morning because of something I found out late last night. Someone I care about greatly is going through a tremendous amount of pain, and I’m not in a position to do anything about it. What do you do when you can’t make someone’s pain stop and you can’t fix everything that’s wrong?
FRIDAY FUNNIES
Inflated expectations make good people act like entitled children
Homeless man on a cold night leaves me with hard questions
Will you uncover your blind spots? Or will you ignore red flags again?
With changed priorities, it’s time to re-evaluate my long-term goal
With each ‘improvement,’ we’re losing family and community
Narcissists set themselves up for miserable lives and lonely deaths
We forget how to be happy, but children and animals remember
What do we prove with huge houses we can’t afford to pay for or even fill?