I kept thinking this week about the scenario I mentioned a few days ago about slaves wanting to escape. It occurs to me that this metaphor works for many of the situations in our lives. What lessons can we draw from it?
My mind keeps going back to those plantation slaves a couple of centuries ago. There were many of them. There were few people guarding them. Why didn’t more of them escape? Or at least make serious attempts?
The answer I keep coming to disturbs me, because it condemns me for things I’ve done at various points in my own life — maybe even including the present — because it suggests that the reason is fear and a cowardly need to be certain. Escaping doesn’t come through fear or chasing certainty. It comes from exercising openness and faith. Most of us are naturally afraid of the uncertainty in the distance, so we cling to whatever kind of bondage we’ve gotten ourselves into.
There are a lot of things I’m not certain about. In fact, “I don’t know,” is something I say frequently — and I’m comfortable with that. I know that if I insist on certainty before I take a risk, I’m dooming myself to a kind of misery stuck with what I have. I say that because I’ve done it before.
I’d love to move to the Caribbean, so what’s been keeping me here?
Man who’s leaving infertile wife thinks world revolves around him
Want to return to a simpler world? Say ‘goodbye’ to cheeseburgers
Little girl’s happy ending reminds us not to be defined by tragedy
Rand Paul shows you can fight the system or join it — but not both
Was he angry to lose his family? Or because he lost his control?
Science or bias? What if there’s no proof that eating fat will kill you?
How many of these Christmas myths did you assume were from the Bible?